I have looked through the other things, and can't find what I am looking for. I do believe it has to do with some setting that is effecting the video card settings, but anyways I have an Nvidia GTX 1050, should be plenty to at least OPEN blender... Though, as soon as it gets opened, as I move the cursor over the screen, or click anything, the whole screen goes in and out (like my monitor is about to go out, but doesn't when Blender isn't open so it isn't the monitor). It is so annoying, like every second, so I can't even really use it, as to even attempt to make a piece of paper would cause it to go in and out 1000x times.
I have gone through the user settings and made sure it is using the Nvidia video card (I have another one Intel UHD 620), and it is. So that isn't the problem. I did change the resolution as well, as my 2in1 has a 3000x2000 and I zoom it 200% so not sure if the resolution is also not causing the issue.