We can indeed enable or disable the addon only once per session which should(should be reported here: http://www.yafaray.org/development/bugtracker/yafaray).
Apart from that the Addon working fine on Windows (64 bit) :
RemoveFirst remove all the previous Add-ons and Versions of Yafaray, then download Yafaray 64bit from here, go to User Preferences, Addons, Install from File, select the zip file and enable the addon, done.
If the error message comes up restart blender and enable/disable the addon.